Perfectly imperfect

Hi guys..i just want to share something that i've read from my favorite photographer Sarah Ulrich.She always inspiring me with her unique and lovely photos. U can view her great photos here www.uniquelyyouphoto.com

One of the many inspiring speakers I was able to catch was Tamara Lackey. Among other things, Tamara talked about the importance of capturing families….this resonated with me. MY family is the most important thing to me and I bet YOUR family is the most important thing to you, but yet many photographers shy away from photographing families (because hey, let’s face it, it can be a bit chaotic!) and many mothers shy away from having images taken with their children because of personal insecurities or physical hang-ups. “I need to lose 10 more pounds.”….”I have nothing to wear.”….”I’m not photogenic.” Sound familiar? I know it does…I’ve heard it all before, and I’m guilty of saying the same things myself….BUT…you know what….(well, besides the fact I can “fix” muffin tops a bit and give you a little digital botox if you insist)…heheheee….
Your kids don’t care! Let me say it again, YOUR KIDS DON’T CARE! Trust me, they really don’t. How many times have your kids looked at images and said “Gee mom, you have a huge butt in that photo?” or “Wow, look at your muffin top!”…chances are, not too many. Kids are most happy and most comfortable when surrounded by their parents, so why not embrace it? It’s great to have images of just your children, but when you pass your photographs down to your children later on wouldn’t you rather have them remember you? The close bond your family shares? The way your family just fits together? I know I would. I don’t want my kids to wonder where mom was when all the photos were taken.
And that is my goal for 2010…to capture more families. REAL families. Not just families sitting perfectly in the grass smiling for the camera…but REAL families…interacting, laughing, embracing, heck, maybe even dancing…H A P P Y…REAL families. I like to think of it as perfectly imperfect, because that’s what families are…perfectly imperfect. Now don’t worry, we’ll grab a few of everyone looking at the camera too, but let’s face it…that’s not REAL…it’s pretty, and nice, but how often does that actually happen? If your family is like mine, not too darn often!
So…this is your fair warning! Don’t be surprised if I tell you to jump in some images with your kids…or (gasp!) your spouse…and don’t tell me you don’t want to because you look fat…because remember, this isn’t about YOU, it’s about YOUR KIDS (and ahem…I’m the boss)!
AND…because I’m making you all do it…*I* will do it to! So…to those photographers reading this….who wants to photograph my family?? Haha! Warning: I might have a muffin top and I’m not photogenic BUT my kids and husband are pretty darn cute, and gosh darn it, I want photos with *me* in them! LOL


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